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Whether you’re trying to conceive, living with PMOS ( formerly known as PCOS), considering egg freezing, navigating perimenopause, or simply trying to understand what your hormones are doing, you are not alone. Reproductive health can feel confusing, especially when symptoms are dismissed, cycles become unpredictable, or you’re told to “just wait and see” without clear answers. But your questions deserve more than vague reassurance. They deserve clinical context, personalised support and practical next steps. Welcome to Ask the Expert with Hertility,  our expert-led series answering the reproductive health, hormone and fertility questions you really want answered. I’m Zoya Ali, Hertility’s Senior Scientific Research Associate, and in this series I’ll be helping to break down complex fertility and hormone topics in a way that feels clear, clinically grounded and easy to understand. From irregular periods and PMOS to egg freezing, perimenopause and trying to conceive, my goal is to give you evidence-based information without shame, confusion or medical jargon. In this edition, we’re answering some of the most common questions we hear from the Hertility community, including what to do if you feel dismissed by your GP, whether egg freezing in your early thirties is worth it, why a PMOS diagnosis matters, and whether pregnancy is still possible during perimenopause. Have a question you’d like answered in a future edition of Ask the Expert with Hertility? Submit your question here. Q: We’ve been trying to conceive for over a year. My GP told me to lose weight and said ovulation can happen at any time. I only get a period once every three months. I feel pushed aside. What can I do? First, I’m really sorry you’ve been made to feel like this, your concerns are completely valid. After 12 months of trying to conceive, you are entitled to a comprehensive fertility assessment. Being told to lose weight and come back later, with no investigations or plan is not adequate care and you deserve more than that. Now, let’s talk about what’s actually going on with your body, because irregular periods every three months are telling us something important. That pattern is known as oligomenorrhoea and it is a sign that your body may not be ovulating regularly. Ovulation is the event that makes conception possible, and if it’s only happening sporadically, or not at all, trying to conceive can become significantly harder. Weight can be one piece of this picture, and it’s worth being honest about that. Weight can affect how the body manages insulin and inflammation, both of which influence reproductive hormones and ovulation. But weight is one factor in a much larger story, and it should never be used as a reason to withhold investigations. The most common cause of irregular, infrequent periods is PMOS ( previously known as PCOS ) which is a hormonal and metabolic condition affecting how the ovaries function. But thyroid imbalance, raised prolactin, insulin resistance and stress can all produce a very similar picture. You cannot know which of these is driving your symptoms without testing. If you feel your GP is still not listening, you are entitled to ask for a referral to a gynaecologist or fertility specialist, or to seek a second opinion. At Hertility, our Advanced At-home Hormone and Fertility Test can give you clinical-grade results, insight into your egg count and screening for up to 18 reproductive health conditions, alongside a doctor-written report, personalised Care Plan and a Clinical Result Review Call. We also offer Fertility Nutrition Consultations that can support ovulation, hormone and metabolic health without shame, blame or crash dieting. You don’t have to wait to be taken seriously. Q: What is the success rate for egg freezing if you freeze your eggs in your early thirties? This is one of the most common questions I hear from people considering egg freezing, and I understand why, you want a number, something reassuring and concrete. The honest answer is that there isn’t one single success rate, let me explain why, and what the picture actually looks like. Age is genuinely one of the most important factors in egg freezing. Freezing in your late twenties to early thirties is the most recommended, because egg quality and quantity are typically the best. But age alone doesn’t determine your outcome, two women who are both 31 can have very different responses to fertility treatment depending on factors like their AMH levels and antral follicle count. When we talk about success rates, we’re really talking about a chain of events, and at each link in that chain, some eggs are naturally lost. First, your frozen eggs need to survive the thawing process, thaw survival rates are typically around 80 to 90%. Then, not every thawed egg will fertilise successfully. Not every fertilised egg will develop into a good-quality embryo. And not every embryo will implant and lead to a pregnancy. Sperm quality and uterine health both play a role at that final stage too. Most clinics recommend aiming for around 15 mature eggs to give yourself a reasonable chance of a future live birth, with some recommending closer to 20 if you’re hoping for more than one child. Depending on how your ovaries respond to stimulation, some people collect enough eggs in one cycle; others need two or more. This is why egg freezing planning really is personal, it’s not a one-size approach. An AMH blood test and pelvic ultrasound to check our Antral Follicle Count (AFC) are the best starting points for understanding your ovarian reserve. They can’t tell us about egg quality directly, that remains something we can only assess once eggs are fertilised, but they give us a meaningful picture of quantity and potential response to fertility medications. At Hertility, our Advanced At-home Hormone and Fertility Test includes insight into your egg count alongside a full hormone profile. We can also arrange a Pelvic Ultrasound Scan to assess your antral follicle count and pelvic structures, and we work with HFEA-accredited partner clinics to support a smooth referral process […]